Argument| what is an Argument? – How to Fix an Argument in any Relationship

Is there any law behind an argument? Whether any law of physics also works in it? Whether we could control the flow of any argument and fix it accordingly? This topic may sound little odd but is quite interesting to understand. So, just try to be a little open-minded like one who could rationally analyze and observe any new thoughts and ideas and be with me till the end of this article and it will definitely gonna change your thought regarding an argument.
So, if we wish to have the ability to fix any argument in a way we want, first we have to properly understand the answers to the questions- what is an argument and why exactly it happens? So let’s begin.

What is an Argument?

An argument is basically a partial conversation in an unpleasant way. Now you must be thinking why I have used the word “partial”. This is because a complete conversation consists of 50 percent of expressing and remaining 50 percent of listing but in case of an argument, no one shows his/her interest in listing to the other people, they only use to be interested in expressing their own point of view.

Reasons behind an Argument:

So, as we almost understood what an argument is, let’s come to the reasons for the birth of an argument. Simply speaking, it happens when two or more people or group of people doesn’t agree with each other on the same thing. In other words, when two or more people have different opinions on something or different point of view to look at any particular circumstances, the argument takes place.
Till this point of this article everything was quite simple and common but now we are gonna have a deep dive into the ocean of the argument. Yes, now we are going to understand some deeply hidden aspects of an argument which most of us couldn’t even understand.
What if I told you, there is not only a law but also a miracle which works behind every argument? Certainly, you won’t believe. But I am just gonna prove you the same in a few minutes.

The Hidden Miracle behind an Argument:

As we all know that an argument happens when two people/group of people have different opinions on the same thing and we also know that two different or totally opposite opinions on the same thing couldn’t be correct in most of the cases still both the parties engaged in an argument claims to be correct in all the cases of the world. Isn’t it a miracle??

It’s a very small sentence to read but a huge concept to understand. It’s really a miracle that we all know this fact but none of us ever thinks of our own mistake while being into an argument. We never think that we could be wrong and the other person could be correct. We never even try to listen and understand the other person, we only try to express our own point of view and expect that the other person will understand us. But just explain me one thing, if you are not even trying to understand the other person’s feelings, emotions, point of view; how could you expect the same from the other one?
It’s a big problem!! Isn’t it…??? So, before coming to the solution part, let us first understand the other part of an argument, the law behind an “argument”.

The Law behind every Argument:

Let me take a little bit of help of physics to explain it.

The sum of all the energies present in the whole universe is fixed. We cannot produce it neither destroy it. We can only convert/pass it.

The law behind an argument is not actually the same but it could definitely be understood with the help of it. Whenever, while an argument, we reply to the other person with a lot of anger, disagreement and with a loud voice, we actually pass our negative energy, our anger to the other person which again comes back to us in a more disastrous way.

The more loud voice, disagreement, and anger we pass in form of negative energy, the same quantum comes back to us more effectively. But we never realize it rather we raise our voice with more energy to prove ourselves correct but the result will never come as per our expectations because of the law of argument. So, it’s also a big problem and we still don’t know how to solve all these problems. So without wasting any further time, let’s come to the solution part.

How to effectively fix an Argument:

Now, this is something we all were waiting for. So, this part of the article will definitely be interesting I believe. So, let’s have a look at the most feasible solutions which would definitely end an argument and bring peace and harmony. But these solutions will not gonna be easy because to follow it one has to keep one of the most valuable things apart and that is the “ego”.

There is nothing to shock hearing the word “valuable”. Nowadays, people are losing their relations, their love once only because of this ego. So there is nothing wrong to tell it valuable. So, if you are ready to keep your ego apart, we are good to go with the solutions.

1) Whenever you engage in an argument, always be prepared to listen and understand the other person’s point of view. You have to positively fix one thing in your mind that you could also be wrong and the other one correct. You would only be able to do this if there would be no ego inside of you at that moment.
2) When you find yourself in a position mentioned above, listen to the other person carefully rather than shouting at him/her without any pre-decided results in your mind.
3) When you complete listening to the other person carefully, analyze the whole thing in your mind and try to understand whether the other person’s point of view is correct or not.
4) If it is correct then simply accept your mistake without any hesitation and it will end that argument on the spot.
5) If it’s not correct or you are not able to analyze whether it is correct or not, don’t ever reply back with all your negative energy in form of anger, loud voice, and disagreement. Let’s have a conversation with the other one with peace of mind until you come to a result as anger reduces the ability to understand. If, despite your calm behavior, the other person continues shouting at you, keep your patience. He/she doesn’t know the law of an argument just like you, so it’s obvious that they could shout. But believe me, if you will keep your patience and reply to them politely, after a few minutes they will also lose their anger because they wouldn’t get any negative energy from your side. And once both of you come to a same state of mind, let’s discuss the problem patiently and you will definitely find a solution.

In this way, you could fix an argument and even you could give it a direction as per your own will. It will take some time to have control over your anger once you will achieve it, you will have the control on every argument.

Here in Value Slaps, we don’t believe in providing any such solutions which are not feasible in real life. The solution given above will definitely work for you provided you would follow all the instructions that are keeping your ego apart and maintaining the patience till the end. At the initial stage when you will try to implement it, you would find it a little difficult to follow but once you would set up your mind accordingly, you will have the ability to fix any argument without losing your valuable relationships or your love once.

In this article, we don’t only find out and understand the answer to the questions – “what is an argument” and why it happens but also find out some deep aspects of it. If you want any other detail on the above topic or on any of the matter discussed above, write a comment below or contact us through our contact page and we will definitely try to get back to you!